You’ve just got back from a date with her. You found it exciting, the conversation flowed smoothly, and she laughed at your silly jokes. You feel like you had a great time, threw back some cold drinks, enjoyed her company, and now you already miss her, and you want to see her again soon.
You wonder, “Was she into me or not? Should I text her tomorrow or shall I wait it out for a few days? I’d love to see her again. But how does she feel about me?” I will help you to answer these questions by covering the top signs that she is into you that will make your next date decisions easier.
1. She initiates conversation
Women who like you will reach out to you to chat or talk. She may send you a text “How are you today? I had a lot of fun with you last night, and I hope that we go out again soon!” This is clearly high interest level, because she’s initiating conversation with you, and it’s incoming. It is the healthiest way to maintain a good friendship that may evolve into a serious relationship. It’s a two-way street, and you realise that it’s not only you starting the conversation or sending the initial text messages. You should still make the first move, but sometimes it’s best to wait and see if she misses you, or wants to talk to you. You want to be a challenge with her, and not always be the one reaching out to her. She will initiate texting and conversation if she misses talking to you, or wonders what you’re up to. If she thinks about you often, you have a woman who is likely into you. She will also respond to your texts in a timely manner.
2. She smiles and laughs a lot
If she smiles a lot with you, laughs, and seems to be in a peaceful, relaxed, pleasant, and good mood in your presence, she is into you. You remind her of fun times, it strikes that pleasure area in her brain that makes her feel alive, vibrant, and peaceful. You want to be the guy that she looks forward to talking to and seeing. You will notice her eyes light up while she talks to you, she smiles, flips her hair, she wants you looking at her, she wants to turn you on, and make you mesmerised with her. You want to be confident, maintain strong eye contact with her (without being too creepy), and you want to make her feel comfortable, yet slightly uncomfortable with you. The uncomfortable feeling that she’s having should be sexual tension with you, yet she feels safe. If she gets a little nervous with you, don’t worry, this usually indicates that she has high interest level in you. If you make her feel safe with you and trust you, you’re good to go.
3. She makes you a priority
A woman who is into you will make you a priority. Don’t expect her to make you a higher priority than her kids, however she will sacrifice her non-kid time to spend with you, and she will plan things around you. If you call her or schedule a date, she will either make time for the date, or she will reschedule with you. If she has other plans, she will still want to see you and spend time with you at a more convenient time for her schedule. She will make sure to get back to you to reschedule a date with you. You remind her of good times, and she craves attention from you. Maybe you’re like her dream guy, because she has strong feelings for you and you make her heart flutter.
4. She doesn’t care about other guys
When she is into you, other guys don’t matter to her. She’s happy and content with your company and presence. You won’t have to worry about her flirting or getting attention from other guys. You’re number one to her, and she will show it to you with her behavior and actions. If other guys flirt with her, she’ll tell them, “I’m flattered, but I’m happy with my boyfriend“. She will shoot down thoughts of being with someone else, because you fulfill her needs and desires.
5. She surprises you with the things you like
A woman who has high interest level in you will surprise you with the things you like. She wants to see you happy, so she’ll give you special gifts that are meaningful to you, and it doesn’t even have to be on your birthday or Christmas. Maybe she gives you that video game that you’ve been eyeing at the store, or she gives you that CD from that band that you’re really into. Whatever it is, she thinks highly of you, and she will give you things out of the blue, because she’s a flexible giver and a keeper. She will show you that she’s thoughtful.
6. She makes plans with you
She is into you when she makes plans with you. Perhaps it’s a vacation that she’s looking forward to, or a next date at a cool restaurant. She’ll make future plans with you, meaning that she doesn’t want to live a life without you. She will include you on fun activities she wants to do together, vacation plans or moving to a different city. Lucky you!
Hopefully this will help you to find the answer to the question if she is into you. There’s a huge difference between a woman with high interest level in you and a woman with low interest level in you. Can you see it? Sense it? Feel it? Don’t forget to listen to your intuition as usually it is right.