You are struggling with dating, or perhaps you’re stuck in a rut with your current relationship. You long for more. The days dwindle by as you gaze outside of your window; an emptiness consumes you inside. You dream of the sunny and soulful days when you can relax and walk down the beach with a perfect boyfriend, the one who truly makes you feel complete and loved.
You may read about him in fantasy novels, or you may dream about him in your favorite romantic comedy movie. You want something real for your life! You daydream about your crush sweeping you off of your feet, and taking you to another level in your current love life.
I’ve been in some relationships and I’ve observed what women like in guys (or… rather, what I think that women like). Let’s go over the perfect boyfriend checklist – a guy with these top qualities who is a keeper.
He’s good-looking and physically attractive
Let’s start off with the superficial. This will be a matter of preference. Some women like burly, meaty and muscular guys, some women like guys with 6-pack abs, some women like ‘regular’ guys that just love them completely. He will need to be attractive to raise your interest level, and keep it on a high level. Perhaps he looks like George Clooney, Brad Pitt, or Henry Cavill. Maybe Matthew McConaughey from the Lincoln Car Commercials? (That was kind of a joke to make you laugh)… I don’t know what your preference is, but choose your ideal crush. Most of the women that I know are visual, and like a guy to be easy on their eyes.
Women want to stay with someone who is kind, and will be good with her kids. He’s a kind-hearted guy, but not a pushover. There is a distinct difference. He can be assertive, yet not controlling, and he can have a backbone to stand up to you when you’re full of rubbish. Besides, why would you want to be with someone who you can completely control? Is that not anti-challenge for you? That’s what your other guy friends are for, not your lover. Your perfect boyfriend is a strong guy, but he is good-hearted, kind, and loving to you.
He’s well-groomed and smells good
Women want to be around guys who are well-groomed and smell good. Your ideal boyfriend will have these qualities. He has a sense of style, and he smells good with that special brand of cologne that drives you wild. He’s well-dressed; He can dress up in a suit, or go casual with you when you go out on the town, but he doesn’t look like he just rolled out of a dumpster. He has that special aesthetic taste in fashion and style, and you appreciate that about him.
He’s loyal, and treats you well
Your perfect boyfriend will treat you well. You long to be with him, because he makes you feel loved, and he acts like a gentleman and treats you with respect. He doesn’t want to flirt with other women, because he already has you, and he cherishes your importance to him. He doesn’t want anyone else, because he loves you, and he’s passionate about you! Lucky you! He takes you out, spends quality time with you, and enjoys being with you. You feel treated like a special woman, and he is there to protect and love you.
Your perfect boyfriend is a blast to spend time with. He’s fun to be around and he makes you laugh. You enjoy his company. He has the right charisma, and he has the confidence that you long for, without being overly arrogant or cocky. He enjoys exploring new places with you, and you have a really good time with him. You can go to movies, dinners, events, concerts, art galleries, and bookstores with him, and he’s an intellectual and fun guy with good taste in things.
He’s well-educated and has a decent job
You can talk to him about books that you’ve read, or other interests with him, because he’s intelligent, and not a moron. He’s also motivated and wants to excel at his career; Not only that, but he supports you and your career as well. He enjoys the challenges of his job, and doesn’t see his problems as setbacks. He also appreciates your success, and he’s proud of you. He engages you with stimulating and thought-provoking conversation, so you’re not bored with him.
He’s loving and there for you
He makes you feel loved and special and he is in love with you. He is always there for you to be your emotional support and your rock. He sacrifices his time for you when you need him to be there for you. He cares about you deeply, and he shows you this through his actions and attentiveness to you. He’s there to hug you, hold your hand, kiss you, and make you feel loved.
He ‘rocks your world’
He’s a passionate stud in the sack, and he ‘rocks your world’. He gives you pleasure, and stimulates you physically and mentally. He knows what to do to pleasure you, and make you beg for more! We won’t go into details… I’ll leave this to your imagination.
You feel comfortable and safe with him
You feel very comfortable with him, and he makes you feel safe with him. He protects you from harm. He’s easy to get along with, and you love that about him. He makes you feel comfortable, and you can just relax, chill, and be yourself around him. Do you know why? Because he’s your Perfect Boyfriend!
Do you feel better now? Don’t you think that a man with these qualities would be a keeper for you? Wouldn’t he make you truly happy with your daily life? Of course he would! Now, it’s your job to go find him. I hope that I helped you with the perfect boyfriend checklist. You will know that you’re truly happy, and you can breathe a sigh of relief while you’re walking and holding hands with your trophy boyfriend into the future and distant sunset over the horizon.