sexting messages for her

Sexting is an excellent way of keeping a relationship spicy, especially if you and your girlfriend live apart. A sexy text can be a great reminder that you think of her while you are at work, in class, or far away from her. It can also get her incredibly turned on and thirsty for some mind-blowing sex with you when you next see her. Here are over one hundred sexting messages for her that will surely turn her on!

How to start sexting

Before you start sending your girlfriend naughty text messages, you should be aware of the different types of sexting. Some include sending nudes or other N-18 images, and some are just sexy texts. Different emojis can also be useful, so it might be worth doing some emoji research before starting your sexting adventures! Here you will find some of the best texts, but most of them can also be spiced up with photos or audio recordings to really turn a girl on over text messages.

Sexting may sound simple, but it is actually a fine art that can be hard to get right. A badly-worded or inappropriate message may turn her off or even annoy her. Thankfully, I made a list of some of the best sexting messages to send to your girl, which you can use for inspiration or simply steal!

Morning sexting messages for her

Women love to hear that they’re the first thing on your mind when you wake up. If you’re looking for something a little sexier than simple “good morning” text messages, here are plenty of options to choose from!

  1. I can’t stop thinking about last night.
  2. I’ve got something planned for you tonight.
  3. Can’t wait to see you out of that dress tonight.
  4. Got a bad case of morning wood. Wish you were here to help me out with it.
  5. Why aren’t you in this bed with me right now?
  6. Had a dream about you last night. Guess what kind of dream it was?
  7. Did you sleep naked last night? Because I did.
  8. I dreamt about you, and when I woke up, you weren’t here! WTF?
  9. I couldn’t sleep tonight because I was thinking about you.
  10. Cum over tonight.
  11. I want breakfast in bed, and I want you to be my breakfast.
  12. Having you here would wake me up better than any coffee.
  13. About to jump in the shower. Wish you could join me.
  14. I bet you wish my tongue woke you up this morning instead of your alarm.

Romantic sexting messages for her

girl sexting in bed

Do you want something a little more sensual to make her feel like a goddess? Here are some romantic texts that you can send to your girlfriend to make sure that she can’t stop thinking about you.

  1. I’m going to kiss every inch of your body. That’s right, every inch.
  2. I miss feeling the soft curves of your body against mine.
  3. I can’t wait to feel your breath against my neck and your nails on my back.
  4. I need you. Now.
  5. Tonight is all about your pleasure.
  6. No music in the world sounds better than your moans.
  7. I can’t stop thinking about your gorgeous body.
  8. I want you so bad.
  9. My whole body aches for your touch.
  10. Being without you is torture.
  11. Just touching you is incredible.
  12. I want to run my hands through your hair while I kiss your neck.
  13. I would give anything to caress your naked body now.
  14. I can’t control myself around you.
  15. I’m going to take you to heaven tonight.

Naughty sexting messages for her

Things can often get a little more explicit (if you’re lucky!). These naughty sexting messages will leave her desperate to rip your clothes off.

  1. What are you wearing, and would you mind if I took it off?
  2. I bet you’re texting with one hand right now.
  3. I can’t wait to make you moan.
  4. I hope your bed is strong enough for what it will be put through next time I see you.
  5. I’m thinking about you while I touch myself.
  6. Guess how hard I am right now.
  7. I love the way you taste.
  8. Ride me like a cowgirl.
  9. Save some energy for tonight—you’re going to need it.
  10. I heard about this new sex position. Can’t wait to try with you.
  11. What’s your ultimate sex fantasy? Because that’s what we’re doing tonight.
  12. Tell me everything you want from me tonight, in detail.
  13. Been a while since I last saw your naked body. I’m worried I might forget what you look like. Care to remind me?
  14. I hope your neighbors like the sound of my name, screamed over and over again.
  15. I can’t concentrate on work today because I’m thinking about what we did last night.
  16. I bought a new toy. I hope you like it.
  17. Tonight I’m going to make your toes curl.
  18. I’ll have you up against the wall the second I get home.

Dirty sexting messages for her

sexy girl teasing a guy

Some people get incredibly turned on when they hear their partner talk dirty. If the above texts are a little tame for her tastes, turn the heat up with these NSFW messages.

  1. How do you want it: slow and gentle or hard and fast?
  2. I want you wet and ready tonight.
  3. Bet you can’t wait for my tongue to be between your legs.
  4. I can’t wait to feel your thighs squeezing my head.
  5. On a scale of 1 to 10, how many orgasms do you want tonight?
  6. I’d like to eat out tonight—after we get back from the restaurant.
  7. Tonight you’re going to be wined, dined, and 69-ed.
  8. Just a warning: you’re not going to be able to walk straight after tonight.
  9. I’ve got a question for you: me on top, you on top, or me from behind? I mean, which one first.
  10. I’m rock hard for you.
  11. I need to be deep inside your body.
  12. 5 hours until I’ll be inside you.
  13. Your night is going to start with a massage and end with multiple leg-shaking orgasms.
  14. I’m going to make you cum so hard.
  15. I want to see your face when I make you cum.

Kinky sexting messages for her

Are you looking for something a bit rougher than the usual or wanting to really bring out your kinky side? These messages are a brilliant way to spice things up if used responsibly and respectfully!

If you don’t behave today, you’re going to get a spanking later.

You’ve been bad, haven’t you?

  1. I’m going to tie you up tonight.
  2. Don’t bother doing your hair because I’ll be pulling it tonight.
  3. I’ve got an outfit that you’ll be wearing tonight.
  4. Tonight you’re not allowed to cum until I say so.
  5. I’m going to pound into you so hard.
  6. Bite the pillow tonight. Otherwise, you’re going to scream.
  7. You’re going to do everything I say tonight, or there will be punishment.
  8. Kneel for me.
  9. Tonight I’m going to be your slave.
  10. I’ll do whatever you say, my queen.
  11. I might have to be handcuffed tonight if I misbehave.
  12. I’m feeling wild tonight. You might need your whip to keep me in line.
  13. Will I be on my knees tonight?
  14. We’ll be going to hell for the things we’ll be doing tonight.
  15. Let’s make a porn movie tonight.
  16. Where are we doing it later? The kitchen table, the car, or somewhere more public?

Sext messages for copy and paste

guy siting on a couch texting

If you want something a little wordier but struggle with creativity, here are some helpful sexting examples that you can copy and paste in full.

  1. I want to kiss your lips while I run my hands through your hair. I want to nibble on your ear as I slide my hand up your thigh and under your skirt. I want to kiss your neck and hear your heavy breaths in my ear as I touch you. I want to listen to you moan softly before I finally start taking your clothes off one by one. I want to run my tongue over every inch of your body until you’re begging for more. I want to hear you scream when I finally give you what you’re begging me for.
  2. I need you here right now. I need you to walk through the door wearing just a nightgown and then let it fall to the ground. I need you naked on top of me, with me kissing you all over. I need you to ride me hard until we both cum hard.
  3. The next time I come to your house, I want you to leave the door unlocked for me. I’m going to walk up the stairs and into your room without a word. I want you to be naked in there, ready for me. I’ll pick you up and kiss you against the wall before we fall into bed and make love without a word except you moaning my name.
  4. I wish I could explain in words how much I want you. Every inch of my body craves every inch of your body. I need to touch your soft skin, grab your year, and feel your breath on me as you gasp with pleasure. I need to be in you more than I need oxygen. Come over, baby.
  5. I can’t wait to make love to you again. I want to take my time, like creating a work of art and putting all of my passion and heart, and soul into it. I can’t paint a picture that shows my love for you, I can’t compose a symphony as sweet as you are, and I can’t write poetry that adequately describes how much I yearn for you. All I can do is show you physically.
  6. I can’t get you out of my mind. Every time I close my eyes, I see you there lying naked on your bed, and I can’t concentrate on anything else. You’ve taken over my mind and my body. All I want is for you to be here naked in front of me instead of just in my head. I would love to show you how crazy you drive me. I can’t wait to do all of the things to you that I’m dreaming of doing.

Funny sext messages for her

You might find serious sexting a little awkward or cringe, or you might just want to make her laugh! A dash of humor and playfulness can really diffuse tension, lead to naughty text messages and even actual sex.

  1. Like to draw? Because I put the D in raw.
  2. Let’s do some DIY. We’ll get hammered, then I’ll nail you.
  3. If I flip a coin, what’s the chance of me getting head?
  4. Call me “weatherman”, because I predict a few inches for you tonight.
  5. I’ve written a “To-Do” List, and you’re at the top of it.
  6. Are you my boss? Because you’re giving me a raise.
  7. Roses are red, violets are fine. You be the 6, and I’ll be the 9.
  8. Roses are red, violets are blue. I can’t write poems. Let’s have sex.
  9. Shall I teach you how to milk a cow while blindfolded?
  10. Let’s have a BBQ. I’ll bring the hot dog, you bring the bun.
  11. Mind if I Slytherin to your Chamber of Secrets?
  12. Are you the chicken or the egg? Either way, I’ll make you cum first.
  13. Are you a haunted house? Because I’m going to scream when I’m in you.
  14. Are you my homework? Because I’m not doing you, but I really should be.
  15. Are you my homework? Because I’m going to slam you on the desk and do you all night long.
  16. I’ve got a package here, and you don’t have to sign for it.
  17. Wanna come over and watch porn on my new mirror?
  18. That dress looks very becoming on you. If I was on you, I’d be cumming too.
  19. Are you my pinky toe? Because I’m going to bang you on the coffee table.
  20. Are you a pile of dirty dishes? Because I wanna get you wet and do you all night.
  21. Ever had an Australian kiss? It’s like a French kiss, but down under.

Good night sext messages for her

girl reading text messages

Do you want to be in her dreams at night? Here are some great examples of sexting before you sleep.

  1. Wanna hear a bedtime story?
  2. What would you do if I was in bed with you now?
  3. I’d sleep so much better if you were in bed with me.
  4. My bed is empty without you in it.
  5. I’m sleeping naked tonight—just so you know.
  6. It’s a good job I’m not with you because you’d be getting no sleep tonight!
  7. What are you wearing to bed tonight?
  8. Thanks for coming today. And for cumming.
  9. Get plenty of sleep babe, because you’ll need a lot of energy for what I’ve got planned tomorrow.
  10. Wish you were here.
  11. Dream about me tonight, and I’ll make those dreams come true tomorrow night.

Learning how to sext is not the only thing to consider—knowing who and when to sext is also essential. You should always be in a relationship—whether casual or serious—that is respectful and consensual on both sides. One of the most important sexting tips is ensuring that the girl is comfortable with and enthusiastic about receiving and exchanging these kinds of text messages from you before diving into phone sexting.

Timing is also key. While getting a hot text at an unexpected time can be a huge turn-on, at other times, it can be distracting or even uncomfortable. You will need a certain skill level at texting a girl to know when turning a casual conversation into sexting is appropriate.

If you make sure that these steps are followed, sexting can be a fun and erotic activity for both you and your girl!

Andy is a storyteller who loves good books and good jokes. In the rare moments he isn't writing, you can find him jogging in the park or perfecting barbeque ribs.

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