Have you recently gone “no contact” with your ex? This is usually a confusing and frustrating time, whether you want to break up. The No Contact Rule is often recommended after a breakup. But how do you know if No Contact is working? If you are completely stumped during this radio silence, here are the […]
Your long-term relationship has just ended, and after some tears and a few glasses of wine, you’ve ended up scrolling the profiles on a dating app. Attention from men certainly helped numb the pain of a breakup. A few dates fast forward, and you found yourself in the arms of the stranger who gifted you
In the immortal words of Alfred Lord Tennyson, “Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” Whether you have experienced separation, divorce, or bereavement, it can be hard to believe this when mourning the end of a relationship. However, it can be therapeutic to reflect on love lost. Here
He broke up with you. Now you are in a constant state of sadness, thinking about that guy but not being able to have him. You torture yourself with questions: “What if I had done something differently?” “Maybe it’s all my fault?” It’s time to redefine your self-worth and start looking forward to a positive
The thought of moving on after divorce and diving back into the dating game can be overwhelming. You’re swimming in a sea of residual emotions and the idea of starting from scratch can make you feel tired before you even start. With the right approach, dating after divorce can actually be exhilarating. Simply put, the
Have you ever wondered why your relationship has become sour? If it is not nourishing and growing your potential, but rather depleting your self-worth and happiness, then you need to consider whether this relationship should continue. So there comes the time when you feel that enough is enough and making a decision to walk away
When a relationship falls apart the natural grieving process takes its toll and you deal with things the only way you know how. Whether that’s grabbing your closest friends to paint the town red or shutting yourself off from the world. However, there is a version of you without your ex partner that is happy,
Is breaking up so hard to do? Many articles in cyberspace provide today’s young bucks with the latest tips on meeting, connecting, and scoring with the ladies. That’s a good thing because the behavior of fellas is under scrutiny and, in some cases, attacked. I’ll take on a tough topic and shed wisdom on the
Going through a breakup or divorce can be devastating to your well-being, especially if it’s still fresh. There are many different ways that you can go about coping with it and handling it. You can drown your sorrows in drugs or alcohol (not recommended), eat a bucket of Ben & Jerry’s ice cream (if you
Most of the healthy relationships that I’ve observed have one common denominator — trust. If you tend to mislead or lie to your guy about things, your relationship is in danger and you need to take action before it gets destroyed. My goal is to save relationships, so that you will be happier with your
The majority of long-term relationships hit a snag at some point or another, and the problems you could be facing may require professional attention. How does one go about finding a relationship counsellor both partners will agree to see? and spouse that can serve as a roadmap to finding the right relationship counsellor to
The silence is the worst part. After any relationship ends, it will feel like you go through every feeling, and my goodness, does it hurt. The shock, anger, grief, brief bouts of positivity, and hopefulness are all feelings you will, at some stage, experience. Then just when you think you have made it, a memory
I was in a long distance relationship until December last year. I had been with my partner for a year before we had to take things long distance due to university. Everyone tells you long distance relationship will be hard, but what they don’t tell you is how to distinguish between difficult patches and signs
Want to help ease the pain of a recent breakup? Are Beyonce and Taylor Swift’s most empowering songs not helping out a whole lot? No fear – heal that broken heart and let it all out with an emotionally charged playlist of the best breakup songs that will definitely get those eye ducts filling up. Sometimes,