Trying to figure out what determines chemistry between people may be tricky. When sparks start flying, it is not due to a rational decision both people make. Instead, it’s a mutual connection that does not happen with every person you date, but when it does, it feels out of this world. So let’s explore what […]
Are you in a happy relationship, but you still feel anxious and frustrated? Do you rock the boat and cause conflict when there is no real issue? You might be self-sabotaging your relationship. Let’s dive in and explore how to prevent this from happening. What is self-sabotaging behavior? Self-sabotaging behavior often stems from a lack
Relationships have stages. There’s meeting, dating, and getting to know each other, and eventually entering that comfort zone where you’re accustomed to each other’s quirks. And then you reach the point where you want to be clear to know where you’re headed. An exclusive relationship is usually considered the next step in dating when both partners
Being in a couple does not mean that you have to abandon your hobbies. In fact, sharing leisure time activities with your partner can be a lot of fun and benefit your relationship. Couples who actively engage in hobbies will find that the time they spend together helps to maintain their connection. Here is a
Having some alone time can feel so good, but there is only so much alone time that a relationship can endure before it breaks and falls apart. I have always been a fan of Living Apart Together (LAT) relationships because such arrangements allow both people to have their own independence while still being part of
Many couples will tell you that intimacy is right up there with communication as one of the most important qualities of a happy relationship – and they’re not just talking about sex! Intimacy in a relationship creates a sense of trust and healthy, open, honest communication between partners. There are incredible benefits of physical intimacy, including
Becoming a better boyfriend is something that you need to work at, just like you work in other areas of your life that need your full attention. No one is born knowing what to do in relationships. It is our life experiences that mold and shape us into the family members, friends, professionals, and partners
Have you ever wondered why your relationship has become sour? If it is not nourishing and growing your potential, but rather depleting your self-worth and happiness, then you need to consider whether this relationship should continue. So there comes the time when you feel that enough is enough and making a decision to walk away
Growing up, I always envisioned a perfect, traditional marriage. It would begin with a wedding fit for a princess. My husband would carry me over the threshold, unlocking the door to our shared home and a lifetime of shared happiness. Adult reality fell far from that childhood fantasy. From a shotgun wedding pre-college to cohabitating
More often than not, we’ve found ourselves all too prone to associate the word ‘fun’ with our amorous proclivities. However, can ‘fun things to do as a couple’ be relegated to the realm of our mischievous leanings alone? And when you tend to misidentify ‘fun’ exclusively with sexual activities, the intensity and fervour informing your
While your family and friends tell you that long-distance relationship will never work out, they probably try to protect you in case you get heart-broken. Long distance makes everything more complicated, but one of the best things about being apart is that it helps you put your relationship into perspective and appreciate it more. Even
You probably thought your time with him was over and you would never reunite. And then, a miracle happened; you and your ex-boyfriend have reconnected. Maybe he reached out to you because he was thinking about you and wanted to get in touch and find out how your life has been since your breakup. Or,
It is never easy when a relationship is falling apart. What can be even harder though, is accepting this and admitting to yourself that it really is over. Let’s all be real, unless there is an incident, generally, it’s ‘over’ before it’s really over. I was in a relationship for the best part of four
I’ve heard it said on many occasions that going on your first holiday together, especially if you’re not living together, is a true test of your relationship. Funnily enough, I actually believe this. It’s a true test for you as a couple. Me and my partner went on our first holiday together to Amsterdam. It
The beginning of any relationship also known as the honeymoon phase is a magical time. You get goosebumps when your lover touches you, butterflies when they’re near you and you smile down at your phone whenever they text you. My relationship was no exception. We messaged each other all the time, met up whenever we
I have never been very good at romantic relationships. There I said it. I’ve either been too needy or too nonchalant. Too loving or too unavailable. Too accommodating or too carefree. All of which have scared men away in droves and left me feeling a complete and utter failure in my search for a soul mate.
Whether you are dating, engaged, newly married or have been together for years, have you ever wondered what is the secret to making your relationship happy and healthy? How do you balance all aspects of your busy life and still maintain a good relationship with your partner? Is there a way to keep the connection that you have with