Lots of accomplished single people I know tell me they haven’t been out on a date in two or three years. Even though there are a lot of obstacles to dating, it is still possible to meet someone and fall in love. It just takes more work than it used to back in the days […]
Confidence is a virtue that we are not all born with. True confidence is the result of faith in yourself and belief in your possibilities. The only way to increase your confidence is to practice being confident. Every day, you can learn new things and develop your abilities. Dating is also something that you should
Even though you might be asking yourself “Will I ever find love?” while feeling alone in your season of singleness, you are not the only person who has ever pondered whether or not being in a loving relationship will ever become a reality for you. It can be hard to feel hopeful about your odds
It’s a fantasy, a goal, a need, a desire, an achievement, a security blanket, a necessity. Love can be all of these things and more, you name it. We are told we can find love, but how? That’s where the confusion sets in. Let’s stop for a moment and study that question. Its phrasing implies
I was 14-years-old when, like a bolt of lightning, I was struck with a startling realisation. Attractive people are often revered based solely on their appearance. On my first day of high school, I stood frozen for several minutes in the hall as this realisation sank in. I had just found my locker as I
You have found a guy that you are really into, but he only hits you up for sex. You daydream about how amazing a relationship with him would be. It’s confusing that this is just a hook-up because you get along so well. This is the first time you have been interested in a guy
I truly appreciate the opportunity to benefit from the wisdom of other people. I live in a very diverse city where I can interact with people from all walks of life, and I enjoy asking people about their perspectives when it comes to relationships because let’s face it; relationships shape and influence every part of
Many of us have opted for online dating as a means for finding a new partner. Whilst this is a perfectly good way of accessing single, likeminded people it concerns me that we may be ignoring the alternatives to online dating while we continue to swipe left. I have always been open about my perforation
Home alone again on a Friday night with only reruns of House and your cat for company. We’ve all been there. It’s the reason most of us download Tinder. Gone are the days of skimming through the lonely hearts column. Not that we ever did because at its peak we were 14 and naive; necking
Dating can be a daunting thought and process, particularly if you haven’t been on the dating scene for a while. Even more so during your first dates. After all, you want to make a good impression, and you want the person to like you. The problem is, wanting people to like you is probably one
Single at 40? Obviously, there are plenty of disadvantages to going around, but what about the benefits of dating someone? I tend to beat myself up over what I can improve upon while dating, what I’m doing wrong, why I often struggle with finding the proper match for me, and then it occurred to me:
When looking for a partner, there are many ways in which you can speed along the courtship process. Whether it’s waiting three days to text back, or binge watching every rom-com from the last decade, everyone has their own dating “rules” that they swear by. Although there are both age old rules of dating and
Every house has a kitchen and most every kitchen has some form of a refrigerator. There are gourmet kitchens, rustic kitchens, farmhouse kitchens and kitchens circa 1963, complete with olive drab wall paper and Formica, that need an overhaul. Online dating sites are like kitchens. They all have refrigerators (people) but the style of the