Are you in a relationship that drives you crazy? Do you ever wonder if it’s just you, or do you have a drama queen who is keeping your life miserable? Maybe she has the looks and the sexy physique, but her attitude drives you a little… crazy? A drama queen will make your daily life very difficult to manage.
Are all women like this? The short answer is no. You have to put yourself into this situation, and you need to handle or deal with the consequences of dating a drama queen. They may be very pretty and sexy, but the endless difficulties of managing your relationship will take its toll on you. Here are the 7 signs that you are dating a drama queen.
1. You have 101 problems, and it’s all your fault
The drama queen rarely takes accountability for your misery or your mutual relationship issues. She likes to blame you for everything: every single problem in the relationship, every argument, every time that you fight it going to be your fault. It doesn’t matter if you feel like you’re right, because you will eventually cave in just to keep the relationship going, and diffuse the issues. The problem is that you will end up doing this too much. You will take the blame for many things that really just aren’t your fault, and you knowingly take bullets to save your relationship, because you happen to be dating an attractive spitfire (she’s also used to getting her way with men). Beauty sometimes does have a price.
2. You feel like you’re in a Woody Allen film
There is so much drama in your relationship, that you can write a novel about it, and it seems like you’re living in a Woody Allen film. You’re waiting for that next dramatic shoe to drop, you walk on eggshells with her, and you don’t want to tick her off, because she happens to have a bad temper. If you feel like you’re in this situation, you are probably dating a drama queen. Of course, the drama takes on a life of its own. The relationship becomes stormy, tempestuous, and you’re waiting for the next hurricane of drama from her. Many drama queens actually need to have drama within their relationship. Without the drama in their relationship, it’s like breathing without oxygen. You want things to be calm, but the drama queen will get bored quickly in the relationship without the drama, so it gets stirred up, similar to a dramatic film, except you’re living it. Lucky you!
3. She is always anxious
Are you dating a woman who is never satisfied, or invents problems to be depressed about? If she always tired, upset, unbalanced, paranoid, or out of control you may be dating a neurotic hypochondriac. She is always worried about things, having anxiety attacks and she can’t settle down in the relationship. Maybe the problems aren’t even real, but she feels like there’s some ominous dark force that is affecting your relationship.
4. You are on an emotional rollercoaster
You may be in a relationship that has thrilling highs, and drastic downs, like you’re on a toxic rollercoaster. Do you feel like it just can’t be normal or sane, or that no matter how hard you try, it will never be a stable relationship? The drama queen will make sure you have enough of thrill. The reason that you hang in there is because you wait for the next high (which is usually hot sex). You desire the passion in the relationship, but you can’t handle the drastic lows that come after the thrilling highs.
5. Nothing is good enough for her
The drama queen will live and thrive on life drama. That keeps her going. She creates problems so that her relationship doesn’t become boring or stagnant. You will find yourself trying to endlessly please her, and nothing will be good enough for her. Her high expectations of your relationship will keep you wondering, “What can I do to make her happy?” The problem is that she’s never happy, and she will manipulate you and play you so that she gets what she wants, until the next time.
6 .She always needs something done
She’s never satisfied with her life, so she always needs something done. It’s your job to do what she wants. You do this because you crave the intimacy, because she’s attractive, but you do want to please her to make her happy or satisfied. She keeps you busy with fulfilling her tasks. This can take its toll on you, because you will break your back for her hoping that her attitude will change as a result of your actions. Sorry, but she is born that way and she is not changing for you.
7. Your life seems dull without her
You will absolutely know that you’re dating a drama queen if your life is boring and dull without her. This way you know that she creates all of the stormy relationship drama, and you’re really just an innocent bystander (or victim). You like things easy, manageable, and you can live without the drama. If you feel like your life is really boring when you’re not around her, this is a red flag that you’re dating a drama queen. If any of this relates to you, I wish you luck.