When you hear about Virgo, you might think of the symbol of this zodiac sign—a Virgin. Well, when it comes to the Virgo man in bed, he is not that innocent. Virgo is a mix of calm and classy, with a bit of goofiness. But here’s the real deal—even though Virgos can be great in the bedroom (and trust me, I’ll explain why soon), they’re not everyone’s cup of tea. They tend to overthink things, which can be much for some people. And because they’re so structured, they might seem a bit cold, which can cause relationship problems.
But why are Virgos so good in bed? Let’s explore the reasons that make intimate encounters with this zodiac sign a true pleasure.
1. They are great communicators
Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planet that governs communication, intellect, and logical thinking. Although this earth sign might not always seem like the most talkative person in a room, a Virgo is quite eloquent.
You might wonder, ‘Well, how do his communication skills translate to more intimate encounters?’ The answer is simple: his eloquence is one of his biggest advantages. In communication with his lover, Virgo likes to make sure that he knows what you like and what feels good to you.
Intimacy, as well as talking about their sexuel preferences, is not a taboo for this kinky zodiac sign. On the contrary—it’s a huge turn-on. So feel free to share your bedroom fantasies with him.
Most Virgo men would even like to hear about your past intimate experiences. Expect him wanting to talk before, during, and after a steamy night.
2. They are excellent listeners
One of the best Virgo man traits is that he doesn’t only speak—he listens too. He wants to know what a good sexual partner means for you, and he is eager to exceed your expectations and even compete with your past lovers.
In a way, this is also why the Virgo man likes to hear about the things you have done in your past. It is not uncommon for Virgos to make it their goal to be the best lover that you have ever had in your life.
I feel comfortable saying that out of all of the zodiac signs, this zodiac sign is especially attentive in regards to intimacy, pleasure, and all that comes with it.
With Virgos, the intimate dynamic tends to be fluid rather than stagnant or pleasureless. Tell him what you like in bed and the Virgo man will abide.
3. They have a particular taste in bed
Virgos prefer things to be a certain way, both in life and in bed. This zodiac sign does not like things that are wishy-washy and uncertain. It ensures that the outcomes are more predictable and makes them feel safe. Certainty brings them comfort, calmness, and a sense of control that they naturally crave.
Not everyone can become a Virgo’s partner in crime due to their high standards and taste, so attracting a Virgo man could be a challenge. Virgos choose their potential intimate and romantic partners carefully. For example, the Virgo man might only be attracted to women that have a certain hair color or body shape.
The Virgo feels the best when he knows all that there is to know. When the Virgo man is testing you, he studies not only your body, but also your reactions, and your desires. I recommend that you do the same because you will figure out what you can expect in bed.
Virgos can be quite open about their particular preferences and kinks, so if you are curious about something, feel free to ask him.
4. They are methodical
People who were born under the star sign of Virgo never do things without aim or purpose. Don’t be tricked by the Virgo charm, since they can make it look like everything is happening spontaneously. Almost everything that Virgos do is methodical or at least thought through to some degree.
Do I mean all the things in bedroom when I say everything? Yes, I do. For example, the Virgo man will likely have a mind map ready of what he wants to do to you. He will rarely stray from his plan, although he might experiment in order to figure out what kind of methodical approach to achieve mutual pleasure works best.
The only downside of this strategy is that it becomes predictable. You will know that, for example, sensual neck kisses and soft touches on yours or his thighs will lead to a night of passion because it has become a part of your intimate routine.
5. They appreciate aesthetics
This might not be something that you will notice right away. Pay a little extra attention before things between the sexy Virgo and you get hot and steamy. If you look closely, you will notice that his hygiene levels are up to par and that his bedroom has certain aesthetics.
You need to understand that, for the Virgo man, aesthetic element is very important. I know that it sounds weird but bear with me.
Virgo’s love for beautiful sights also means that he pays attention and notices the smallest details in his partner. These little things are also a big turn-on to him. He likes women that take care of themselves, since he does the same, and hopes that it is equally appreciated.
The Virgo will try to make the bedroom look like a place that calls that radiates lust and inspires you to get creative.
6. They are sensual
Out of all the astrological signs, the Virgo is one of the only ones with a symbolic human depiction—a Virgin. I always tell people that they should take that as a disguise since the reality is much different.
If you have ever been in a relationship with a Virgo man, you are well aware of the palpable energy that he can create in just a blink of an eye. With a calm and collected voice, Virgos have the ability to command a room with ease.
For those who have not had the privilege to come close to this earth sign, know that the Virgo man usually oozes with mysterious yet enticing energy. Yes, at times, a Virgo can seem timid. However, in reality, that just means that the Virgo isn’t feeling comfortable in the situation or fully free to be himself.
Physicality and tactile sensations are of utter importance for the Virgo. Physical stimulation gets him easily excited to jump into bed since Mercury rules over his five senses, as well as his hands. Your mere scent or even the sight of your outfit can serve as an aphrodisiac to the Virgo.
Tender touches will arouse this star sign, especially around the leg and stomach areas.
7. They love analyzing, even in bed
If there is one thing the Virgos are the biggest experts on—it is analysis. Whether it’s people, situations, projects, or just their thoughts, nobody in the zodiac analyzes as good as Virgos can.
This ability is also quite useful when it comes to intimate ventures. Virgos don’t like to command in bed, but rather they observe the reactions and energy of their partner and react accordingly.
Virgo’s analytical skills play a huge part in what makes him such a good lover. He can recognize the smallest cues of pleasure, and he can easily read into what is driving his lover wild. This just comes to this sign naturally.
8. They have a wild side
If you are more of the kinky type when it comes to intimacy and you’re concerned with whether or not the Virgo man can keep up with your needs and desires in bed, know that you have nothing to worry about.
More often than not, Virgo men will have some kind of fetish or fantasy. As an astrologer, I noticed that Virgos tend to love roleplay and often feel the most turned on when taking on a more submissive role in the bedroom.
Virgos are excellent at fulfilling their partner’s needs. So if you communicate your desires in an open and non-judgmental way, you will have an exciting intimate relationship with the Virgo.
Virgos are obsessed with making things the most pleasurable for both parties. One of my good friends described the approach that her long-term Virgo partner has in regards to intimacy like ‘a mission’. End objective: toe-curling waves of satisfaction.
The Virgo man hates disappointing people, let alone in bed. Of course, intimacy is not just about reaching a climax. However, the Virgo man in bed needs to know how he can satisfy his partner and take the experience to another level.
This star sign will actively try to learn what feels the best to your body over and over again, as well as explore it. The two of you, together, might find new things that get you excited.
10. They adore foreplay
Foreplay is extremely important to Virgos. Without it, this earth sign would feel lost in intimacy. Whether it’s mental foreplay or physical foreplay—it simply needs to happen in order for the Virgo man to feel stimulated enough to take things further.
In my career as an astrologer, I have never heard anyone complain about the performance of a Virgo man in bed. Time and time again, Mercury’s rule over Virgo is a blessing for their intimate partners. Mercury is all about connection and the senses, and what better connection is there than a tender skin to skin?
Foreplay can also happen in the form of words and teasing. To Virgos, it just makes the desire for intimacy that much greater. Soft whispering, tender kisses, gentle touches, combined with some assertiveness and command will unlock his passion.
A Virgo also loves being wanted, so make sure to let him know this. I’m not promising fireworks, but the chances are high.
11. They love discovering erogenous zones
To put it simply—if you have a Virgo sexual partner, you are going to explore new sensations in your body, among other things. This majestic earth sign is not shy when it comes to sensual exploration. The Virgo man will not surprise you by suddenly doing something uncomfortable or that hasn’t already been discussed.
Virgos are known to be good at discover new erogenous zones on their partner’s body. Some might not like the predictability that sometimes comes to bedroom activities with the Virgo man, while others find this, in a way, comforting.
Don’t think that intimacy with this zodiac sign is boring or dull. It takes two to tango, and Virgos just like the extra reassurance that comes with open communication. If openly talking about your intimate fantasies isn’t something that turns you off, you definitely won’t have to worry about whether or not your intimate time will be good. (Psssst, it will be great!)
12. They care about personal hygiene
Lack of self-care and poor hygiene are major turn-offs for the Virgo man. While he may enjoy playful pursuits, cleanliness is non-negotiable.
This might seem like a strange reason why intimacy with Virgo is so good, but he likes to keep his cleanliness standards high. Don’t expect an odd-smelling towel to be thrown at you when the deed is done. Virgo will treat you with respect that you deserve since that’s just his way of living.
Virgos are the classy, neat lovers of the zodiac. It is unlikely that you will discover dust balls and half-eaten bags of chips laying around in his bedroom.
Some women find their Virgo partners hard to decipher, despite of how good they are in bed. If you are patient and understanding enough to see past his cold exterior, Virgo will show you his soft, sensual, and wild side.
On some levels, most star signs are compatible with each other. However, in intimacy, the incompatibilities between two people tend to be harder to ignore. Before getting intimate with a Virgo man, you might want to learn more about the compatibility of your star signs and intimate appetites.
If the personality sits right with you, the Virgo man in bed will be a sensual delight for you. With Virgos, good conversation can lead to earth-shattering orgasms. Don’t say that I did not warn you!
