Articles by James D'Souza

James D'Souza

James is a dating expert at Good Man Plan. He helps single women to avoid the players and attract good men. James’s writing and ideas on men and masculinity have been featured on Good Men Project, The Guardian, and on BBC2. He has also guest-edited for BBC Radio5Live.

why men pull away from women

So you’ve got yourself together. You have a great job; you know how to have fun – you’re successful and smart. You know how to meet guys, flirt well, and date effectively. Yet you are left with an ongoing frustration. Why do men lose interest? Here are four reasons why men pull away from women, […]

how to find a good man

I was at a wedding recently with a bunch of friends and acquaintances. We sat outside chatting when a group of guys walked out of the bar with drinks. I saw them and joked with one of my single friends, “Which guy do you like?” She pointed one out. I went up to the group