Are you planning on inviting that stunning woman on a date, but you don’t have any good ideas for what to do? There are many date activities that you can try to make things interesting. You don’t want your dating life to become stale, so I suggest mixing some things up to keep the sparks flying with her. You can explore everything from a typical date to discovering something new and exciting.
1. Meeting up for coffee
Going out for coffee makes an ideal primer date. You will want to get your feet wet with getting to know her, and the best example of this is a simple coffee date. What better way to have a conversation about interesting subjects, and get to generally know her better? If she doesn’t drink coffee, consider something else (water, wine, or a simple soda pop). Whatever you provide her, a simple coffee date can jumpstart your dating life. This is also an easy way to ‘weed out’ the women that you don’t feel chemistry with or vibe with, or that you don’t want to see for a second date. After getting her number, this is the way to go, since you don’t want to be spending a lot on a fancy dinner for a first date. Save your money for the second or third dates.
2. Dinner & a movie
You can do this after a couple of coffee dates, or after you start getting to know her better with a lot of conversation. Open up your wallet, take her to a nice restaurant, and take her out for a cool movie that you will both enjoy. When you go out to dine, you can always pick a location outside in the sunshine (if the weather is nice, warm, and sunny outside). Remember to bring your shades, and I’m sure that she would appreciate you ordering a glass of wine for her. Keep in mind that you both do most of the talking at the restaurant beforehand, and at the movie theatre, you will be passively watching the film together with a couple of cokes or sharing a bucket of popcorn. It’s all good entertainment, and you can pick out a scary movie so that she clutches your arm when she gets scared, or you can also pick an independent artsy film that you both will enjoy. You can always have a discussion about the director, actors and plot after you enjoy the film with her.
3. Working out together
After you are going steady in your relationship for a while, I would suggest hitting the gym together. This is a fun activity, and you will both enjoy working up a sweat and feeling better after a good workout (the sex can come later). It’s always fun to see her in her tight and skimpy workout clothes, and you can also play racketball, go swimming, or simply hit the weights or exercise machines together. It also strengthens you as a couple, because you are working out together, and maintaining a healthy and fit lifestyle. Flex your biceps for that!
4. Attending a comedy club
Going to a comedy club will often promise a fun and enjoyable time. You can laugh together, sit close, and enjoy some cold alcoholic beverages. It’s also a good way to break the ice with her, and become closer as a couple. You will create a memorable dating experience that you will remember down the road. You usually can’t go wrong with a fun comedy club, and it gets you laughing and enjoying the evening out on the town.
5. Gambling at a casino
As long as you don’t do this too often (because you may have a gambling problem), a casino can be a fun place for a date. If one of you hits the jackpot, you can easily pay for the ride home, or you can book a room there for the night and enjoy the amenities. If you win that night, this can be a super fun time! You will feel good about yourself, and you can easily enjoy a steak dinner with your lovely date. Let her indulge herself. If you lose — oh well, there’s always next time.
6. Shopping together
This is a simple activity that won’t cost you a lot of money, unless you end up buying lots of clothes for her. It’s always a good time to take her shopping, let her try on different outfits for you, and explore her being a fashionista. If she really likes a certain dress, and her eyes light up because she can envision herself wearing it outside in the summertime, why not just buy it for her as a gift? Don’t be too cheap. I’m not saying that you need to buy everything for her that she has her pretty eyes on, but shelling out some extra dough will likely pay dividends down the road for you. It’s always fun to walk around, get some exercise, talk and laugh, and discover new bargains. You should also offer to carry her shopping bags for her, because that’s what a true gentleman does for his pretty woman.
7. Dancing the night away
You can enjoy the magical scenery, music, and good vibes at a nightclub. Pick one with cool music, and don’t be afraid to get out on that dance floor and have a good time with her. You can also dance to slow songs, and clutch her tightly. When you’re at a nightclub, you tend to loosen up, and some cold drinks can also help with that. It’s often a fun time, and you will likely want to go back. You can also check out her moves on the dance floor as she’s ‘dropping it like it’s hot’.
8. Camping in the nature
If you’re really brave, you can take her camping. Some women hate camping though, so make sure that she’s up for the adventure outdoors. You can pitch a tent (no pun intended), you can enjoy a bonfire together, have some drinks, gaze at the bright stars above light years away in the night sky. It’s not so bad. The only problem will be the mosquitos or waking up in a wet tent if it starts raining. If camping sounds too extreme for you, why not consider booking a cozy cabin or a nature lodge?
9. Playing bowling
Bowling can be fun, and you can show off to her how many strikes (or gutter balls) you get. Bowling is often better within a small group of people, so you can consider going on a double-date with another couple to enjoy the game. Otherwise, you can try going bowling with her for a Saturday night, and have a fun time. You can eat the yummy bowling alley pepperoni pizza too!
10. Going out for cocktails
You can always go the ‘take her out for cocktails’ route. Sometimes, it’s just fun to unwind and go to a nice bar for a good time on a weekend. Just make sure to be responsible, and don’t drink and drive. You can always let her drink, and be there to listen to her drunken stories. It’s a fun time, and if she likes sports, you can always watch a game together at the bar. Make sure to pick up the tab, and to take care of her if she has one drink too many.
These are some fun date activities. Try to be creative with your dating life, and create new experiences together. You can always just chill with her as well, but there’s nothing wrong with spicing up your love life with some new activities.