flirty questions to ask a guy

Sometimes the easiest way to make a move on someone is to ask the right question. A good question can unearth secret desires and help you to get to know your crush or your boyfriend better. Here you will find over 120 flirty questions to ask a guy that will surely keep your conversation flowing!

Flirty questions to ask a guy over text

Text messages are amazing because they allow you to be a little bolder with your questions. We are all more comfortable asking some things through a text message, and since you aren’t there, it can really build some great tension. Use these ideas when texting a guy that you like and get him thinking about you when you are away!

  1. Guess what I am wearing right now?
  2. I heard kissing helps burning calories. Want to help me exercise?
  3. If you could come to my dream tonight, what would you do?
  4. Do you like dirty talk?
  5. What would you want to take off of me first?
  6. Do you want a picture of me looking cute or naughty?
  7. What is it like being lucky enough to be my boyfriend?
  8. What’s your favorite thing for me to wear?
  9. Do you like it when a girl makes the first move?
  10. What is your favorite part of my body?
  11. Do you want to get together and explore each other?
  12. How long has it been since we kissed?
  13. Do you prefer being called sexy or smart?
  14. What is your favorite way to keep things fun?
  15. What is the first thing you want to do when we meet up?
  16. Do you have hidden tattoos?
  17. What turns you on the most?
  18. Do you like it when I run my hands through your hair?
  19. Do you ever have naughty dreams?
  20. Tight jeans or a sexy skirt?
  21. Are you a romantic type?
  22. Do you ever get shy around girls?
  23. How would you seduce me?
  24. Have you ever sexted anyone?
  25. What would your dream girl do right now?
  26. If you could have me bring you one thing right now, what would it be?
  27. How would you describe me in three words?
  28. Next time we meet up, how long do you think it will be before we’re in bed together?
  29. If we were at a bar or restaurant and I told you to come into the bathroom with me, would you do it?
  30. If I sent you a dirty picture, would you send one back?
  31. How many days in a row do you think you could go without sex?
  32. How many days in a row could you go without sex if I was there?
  33. What would you do if I put my hands under your shirt?
  34. What color underwear do you think I’m wearing?
  35. Have you ever touched yourself while thinking about me?
  36. If I walked into the room where you are right now, what would you do?
  37. Have you ever had dirty thoughts about me while you were at work?
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Flirty intimate questions to ask a guy

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Intimacy involves learning more about what the other person values. When you learn about someone’s deepest desires, you learn more about who they are and how to please them. Use these questions to get a better grasp on what your guy wants when it comes to sexy stuff!

  1. Do you have any secret fantasies?
  2. How would you feel if I bit your lip while we were kissing?
  3. Where do you like to be kissed?
  4. What would you do if I was sitting in your lap right now?
  5. Do you like to be on top or bottom?
  6. Would you join me in a shower?
  7. What do you wear in bed?
  8. On a scale from one to ten, how bad do you want me right now?
  9. Do you prefer black or red lingerie?
  10. Have you ever taken naked selfies?
  11. Do you like it when I’m forward or playing coy?
  12. What’s one thing you want me to do to you that I haven’t done?
  13. Do you like wrestling in bed?
  14. What is the most sensitive part of your body?
  15. How would you describe your package?
  16. Do you like it when I touch you?
  17. Where do you like to touch me the most?
  18. Would you ever play sexy games in bed?
  19. Do you prefer me in lace or completely undressed?
  20. Do you like having your neck kissed?
  21. Have you ever bought lingerie for a girl?
  22. Do you like it with the lights on or off?
  23. What is your favorite thing that I do?
  24. Have you ever had a dream about me?
  25. Rough or sensual?
  26. Do you prefer cuddling after sex or before sex?
  27. How often would you have sex if you could choose?
  28. Is there something you’ve always wanted to try in bed but were too shy to admit?
  29. Do you prefer to give or to receive?
  30. Would you describe yourself as more dominant or submissive?
  31. What’s your favorite thing about your own body?
  32. If someone else had to join us in bed one night, who would you choose?
  33. Are you a boob guy, a butt guy, or a leg guy?
  34. What’s your biggest fantasy that involves me?
  35. What non-sexual thing do I do that secretly turns you on?
  36. Do you think you can satisfy me in bed?
  37. Do you like it when I talk dirty to you?
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Flirty Would You Rather questions

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Everyone knows that games are an excellent way to build some tension. “Would You Rather” is a game that is perfect for parties. Here is a list of flirty and even dirty questions to ask to learn more about your crush or make a move!

  1. Would you rather kiss me or touch me?
  2. Would you rather get spanked or be teased blindfolded?
  3. Would you rather dance with me in a club or under the moon?
  4. Would you rather tell me how you feel about me or not talk to me for a whole day?
  5. Would you rather play hide and seek in the dark or wrestle?
  6. Would you rather play truth or dare, or seven minutes in heaven?
  7. Would you rather wrestle naked in a pool of honey or chocolate?
  8. Would you rather cook dinner with me or have me cook dinner?
  9. Would you rather undress me or have me strip for you?
  10. Would you rather kiss a horse or tell your ex you still love them?
  11. Would you rather get a dirty message or a picture of me topless?
  12. Would you rather be teased with an ice cube or with a feather?
  13. Would you rather drive to see me or get dirty on FaceTime?
  14. Would you rather kiss me in front of your friends or your family?
  15. Would you rather take me out to dinner or order a pizza?
  16. Would you rather watch me do a sexy striptease or climb on top of you?
  17. Would you rather sext or kiss?
  18. Would you rather run down the street naked or hook up in a public bathroom?
  19. Would you rather cuddle in the morning or at night?
  20. Would you rather see me dressed as a sexy nurse or a maid?
  21. Would you rather role-play or do something scandalous?
  22. Would you rather make out in the back seat or get a hotel room?
  23. Would you rather be kinky or romantic?
  24. Would you rather see me in a wet t-shirt or bra and panties?
  25. Would you rather always last one minute in bed or it always take you an hour?
  26. Would you rather go without sex for a month or come over and have sex with me right now?
  27. Would you rather have morning sex or have sex before bed?
  28. Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon?
  29. Would you rather receive a notification every time your parents have sex or for them to receive one every time you have sex?
  30. Would you rather only be able to have sex in the bedroom or only be able to have sex outside of the bedroom?
  31. Would you rather end a first date with a passionate kiss or with sex?
  32. Would you rather sleep with your ex once or not sleep with anyone for a year?
  33. Would you rather walk in on your parents or have them walk in on you?
  34. Would you rather send nudes to your boss or to five random strangers?
  35. Would you rather see me naked but not touch me, or make out with me in the dark?
  36. Would you rather tie me up or be tied up by me?
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Flirty Truth-or-Dare questions

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Truth-or-Dare has been a way for people to get together at parties since it was first invented. It is a game where you are forced to carry out an action or forced to be truthful with another person. Use these completely amazing Truth-or-Dare questions to peel back the layers of the guy you are interested in and learn a little bit more about what he is into!

  1. Who do you most want to sleep with?
  2. Who would you like to kiss the most in this room?
  3. Who is the celebrity that you fantasize about?
  4. What is your favorite sex position?
  5. Who would you hook up with right now if you could?
  6. Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
  7. What is the dirtiest thing you have ever done?
  8. What is your most embarrassing sex story?
  9. How many girls have you kissed?
  10. Do you ever watch porn?
  11. What is your secret fantasy?
  12. Have you ever fallen in love at first sight?
  13. What would you do if I walked up and kissed you right now?
  14. Have you ever thought about me naked?
  15. How far would you go on a first date?
  16. Have you ever sent a naughty picture?
  17. What is your favorite feature of a girl?
  18. Do you want to do something risky with me?
  19. Who was your first lover?
  20. Have you ever kissed someone you shouldn’t have?
  21. Have you ever wanted to date anyone in this room?
  22. What color of underwear are you wearing?
  23. When was the last time you hooked up with someone?
  24. Would you ever consider posing for an erotic magazine?
  25. Who has seen you without clothes on?
  26. Have you ever made a sex tape?
  27. Have you ever had sex in public?
  28. How many people have you ever slept with?
  29. Have you ever had sex in a car?
  30. When was the first time you touched yourself?
  31. Have you ever lasted less than a minute in bed?
  32. Have you ever been walked in on?
  33. Have you ever hooked up with more than one person in a night?
  34. Have you ever fantasized about one of your teachers from school?
  35. Do you have a fetish?
  36. Have you ever had a crush on a guy?
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Funny but flirty questions

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Everyone loves to laugh. Making someone laugh is a great way to shatter any kind of awkwardness, which is good when it comes to talking about intimate topics. These bold and sometimes silly questions are perfect for helping you to let your crush know how you feel without being too intense.

  1. What is a pet name you prefer to be called by?
  2. Would you ever visit a nude beach?
  3. What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
  4. If you had to choose between being naughty or nice, what would your choice be?
  5. What is the sexiest fruit for you?
  6. Would you still think I was hot if I tripped while undressing for you?
  7. If we ended up on an uninhabited island, what are three things you’d want to have with us?
  8. Care to come over for dessert? Bring whipped cream and easy-to-remove clothes.
  9. What is your superpower?
  10. What is the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done?
  11. If your life was a movie, what movie would it be?
  12. Have you ever been caught naked by someone?
  13. Aren’t you curious if I’m as good at kissing as I am at making jokes?
  14. If you had x-ray glasses, which part of my body would you want to examine first?
  15. If you were an object in my room right now, what would you choose to be?
  16. What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without clean underwear?
  17. If you could do one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  18. Do you prefer licking or biting ice cream?
  19. What is one thing you would never eat on a date?
  20. Don’t you love a girl who makes great dad jokes?
  21. Are you always this good at flirting, or is this all a trick?
  22. What would you do if you were invisible for one day?
  23. What is something funny that I wouldn’t believe about you?
  24. Who would you hate to see naked?
  25. Do you think kissing is a good way to end a fight?
  26. If you could choose one thing from a sex shop, what would it be?
  27. If you caught me doing something naughty how would you punish me?
  28. If you saw me in a bar and didn’t know me, what would you say to me to turn me on?
  29. Is your tongue as good in the bedroom as it is in conversation?
  30. If you could recreate any movie scene with me, what would it be?
  31. What’s the funniest pick-up line you know?
  32. If you had to compare me to an animal, which animal would it be?
  33. If you had to hook up with a male celebrity, who would it be?
  34. Do you prefer sex in the morning, afternoon, or right this second?
  35. What do you feel like doing today, and why is it me?
  36. What’s your favorite thing to eat in bed?
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How do you ask a flirty question?

As well as knowing what kind of flirty questions to ask a guy, knowing the right time and place to ask the questions is extremely important. While some guys love it when a girl makes the first move, others prefer to make the first move themselves. Depending on the personality of the guy you like, you might choose a more vague and innocent question or a more direct and explicit one.

There is a common conception that guys are almost always thinking about sex. While there is certainly at least some truth in this, not every guy is going to be comfortable with receiving dirty messages from just anyone! Just as you would not want to find sexual messages in your inbox from a stranger or someone you aren’t attracted to, this also applies to the male of the species. While a guy that is interested in you will probably love you asking him flirty questions, a guy who is not may be uncomfortable with this, so you should always make sure that your interest is reciprocated! A good way of making sure of this is to start out with the milder questions and see how he responds before turning up the heat! If a guy does not want to answer a question, you should always respect his boundaries.

All of these questions are flirty to at least some degree, but different questions will be best suited for different situations. For example, the best questions to ask a guy you are already dating might be very different from the best questions to ask a guy you’re crushing on but still getting to know.

There are lots of good questions to ask a guy that you can choose from—feel free to use any of these as inspiration to create your own, or to mix and match. The questions might vary from one circumstance to another, but the intent is always the same. Be bold and ask the kinds of questions that will get your crush thinking. You might just love the result!

Brenda is relationships and lifestyle writer, coffee enthusiast, and a lover of new experiences. You’ll usually find her in a coffee shop with her laptop and a flat white scribbling down an article or searching for the next travel destination.

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