how to flirt with a guy

Are you wondering what flirting strategies work with guys that are easy to use? Is there a guy that you’re into, and you want to catch that good-looking guy’s attention from across the room? Perhaps you’re wondering, “How do I make him attracted to me?” Or… “How do get his undivided attention, so that he wants to come over to talk to me?” Speaking as a guy myself, I know what works, how to flirt with a guy and how to get his attention.

Whether that be from first eye contact, meeting him, or getting to know him, there are plenty of easy strategies that you can use to make him take the bait. Some of these strategies you may already use intuitively, but let’s go over them anyway. Shall we?

1. Use eye contact

We actually like it when an attractive woman gazes at us. As long as you’re not a creepy stalker, this will most likely work with most men. If you’re really daring, give him a subtle wink from across the room. It shows confidence, that you know what you want, and you know how to get it.

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2. Wave hi at him

There’s nothing wrong with being friendly, and waving hi at him. Once you get his attention, you can always signal him over and initiate a conversation with him. Why not? Life is short, after all. Approaching men first could lead to new and interesting things if you hit it off.

3. Smile or laugh at his jokes

When you’re into him, you’ll smile or laugh at his silly jokes, even if he’s not really that funny. Showing him your cute smile will help, and is a proven flirting technique, especially if you have all of your teeth, and they’re pearly white! Show him that cute smile, and your sense of humor.

4. Flip your hair in his direction

The hair flip is very effective flirting technique. Guys love women with long silky, shiny, straight or curly hair, and we love to get a whiff of your shampoo, while you flip your hair at us in our direction. It can often signal to us that you think that we’re cute, or you simply want to get our attention with your beautiful and lovely hair. Whatever it is, the hair flip works for us, as long as it doesn’t hit us directly in the face during the process. Ouch!

5. Lean into him

Why not lean into him, if you’re wearing pleasant perfume? Let him get a glimpse of your cleavage while you’re at it. This tactic is destined to work. Seduce him with your smell, then your looks. If you smell bad… don’t. This will make him run from you in the other direction.

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6. Tap or touch his arm

You can always tap him on the arm, or lightly touch him to show that you’re interested in him. It’s very subtle, but it can create a magical connection that may lead to your second date, engagement, marriage, or baby bliss.

7. Flaunt your assets

For many men, physical beauty will usually work. This means that you will want to flaunt what you got. If you have long and smooth legs, show them off! You can wear a tight, form-fitting dress, cross your legs in his direction, and show off your alluring posture. Guys will surely notice that.

8. Ask him out on a date

Go get who you want and don’t wait for him to make the first move, because it may never happen. Many women think that it’s wise to wait for the guy to make the first move with them, but why not take initiative and go grab the bull by the horns? You can always be assertive, flirt with him, and make the first move. It can be very sexy. Remember that it’s better to have tried and failed, than to have not tried at all.

9. Initiate a friend request on social media

If you truly want to connect or flirt with him, there’s no better way than giving him a friend or follow request over social media. Be it Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, why not initiate a connection with that guy that you’re truly interested in, so that it may lead to pleasant and fun conversation via messaging?

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10. Message him frequently

Similar to social media, you can always text him to initiate flirting with emoji over your phone. Or… you can message him just to connect with him to get to know him better as a person. You can frequently text him to maintain a solid connection that can lead to good conversation, and creative date scheduling down the road.

These are the 10 easy strategies for how to flirt with a guy. They are destined to assist you with catching that good-looking guy’s attention, and hopefully keeping him interested in you.

William is a graphic designer and creative writer. One of his favourite interests is reading books about relationships. He recommends ‘How to Succeed with Women’ and Doc Love’s ‘The System’. He has two adorable children that he enjoys spending time with. William is currently single and is preparing for his next relationship. You can follow him on Twitter.

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