Do you want to take your relationship to the next level? If you’re wedding-ready, but your man hasn’t popped the question yet, don’t freak out! Waiting for him to propose, or wondering if he wants marriage, can make any woman anxious. Lucky for you, you don’t have to worry because I’ve prepared a list of top signs he wants to marry you. If you’ve noticed some of these signs, get ready because it’s coming!
1. He talks about marriage
Let’s get the most obvious one out of the way first – he talks about getting married! If your guy doesn’t shy away from the topic of marriage (specifically with you, of course), that’s a perfect sign that he wants to marry you. He might jokingly call you his Mrs. or replace your last name with his, but if there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s that men don’t joke around about marriage. He’s serious about you!
2. He adores you
When a man adores you, you can feel it in every fiber of your body. Do you catch him looking at you when he thinks you’re not paying attention? Does he affectionately stroke your cheek or hold your hand while you’re out and about? These are all signs that he adores you and, chances are he wants to marry you, too.
3. He says “we” not “me”
He sees you as a long-term partner if he automatically includes you in his plans and ideas instead of solely thinking of himself. Likewise, if he says “our” instead of “my,” that man is ready to get married! He makes decisions with you in mind because he knows they will affect you both. This subtle hint is a sign that he’s looking ahead to marriage.
“What’s yours is mine, and what’s mine is yours.” This popular saying for married couples can also apply to couples gearing up for marriage. He won’t mind if you wear his shirts (or eat off his plate!) because he already sees you as wife material. However, sharing isn’t only limited to material possessions. If he shares his secrets with you, too, that’s a good sign that he’s already considering marrying you. As they say, sharing is caring!
He won't mind if you wear his shirts (or eat off his plate!) because he already sees you as wife material. Click To Tweet5. He is consistent
A man that’s ready for marriage is emotionally consistent about his feelings for you. He doesn’t flake on you or make you wonder if he still loves you by being distant and unavailable. Instead, he’s faithful when it comes to supporting you and freely showing you affection. His consistency is proof of his emotional maturity, another sign that he is ready for marriage.
6. He’s proud of your relationship
Another one of the signs that he wants to marry you is his openness about your relationship. He doesn’t want to keep your relationship a secret; he wants to share it with the world! He’s proud to tell his friends and family about you, and he can’t help bragging about how amazing you are. If you have a man like that, he definitely wants to be married to you.
7. He spends his free time with you
Your man just can’t get enough of you if he spends most or all of his free time with you. He misses you when you’re not there, and he doesn’t want to leave if he doesn’t have to. When your significant other spends a lot of time with you, it’s because they don’t want to be apart. That man has marriage on the brain.
8. You vacation together
Is there anything more fun than vacationing with your significant other? Whether it’s a weekend trip or an extended getaway, if you always vacation together, he plans on being with you for the long haul.
9. He talks about your future
This one is one of the huge signs he wants to marry you! When he talks about your future together from time to time, he sees you in it. If he makes plans for you both a year or more down the road, he’s already thought of what your future together looks like. And he’s likely thought of marrying you and creating a life together.
10. He asks your ring size
Has he asked you about what kind of rings you like or what your ring size is? If so, he’s probably ring shopping as we speak! He probably wouldn’t ask those questions if he wasn’t headed for marriage. This is one of the signs he wants to marry you soon, so that proposal is right around the corner!
11. You regularly attend family get-togethers
If you’re his plus one to family game nights, holiday gatherings, and other special occasions (especially weddings!), your boyfriend has definitely thought about putting a ring on it. Seeing you bond with his friends and parents will make him want to marry you even more because you already feel like you’re part of the family.
12. He takes care of you when you’re sick
There’s nothing sweeter than your partner looking after you when you’re under the weather. He might feed you a bowl of hot soup or tuck you into bed while you are watching your favorite movie. Whatever it is, those caring actions show just how deep his love is for you.
13. He holds you often
When he holds you in his arms, do you find those embraces lasting longer and longer? He holds you often and touches you affectionately because he can’t believe how lucky he is to have you. He can’t imagine his life without you, which exactly why he’s ready to lock you down.
14. He asks for your input on big decisions
Because your man is so considerate, he checks with you first before making any major life decisions. If he’s planning on marrying you, he knows that big changes will affect you both, and because he values and respects your opinion, he’ll make sure that you approve before moving forward.
Because your man is so considerate, he checks with you first before making any major life decisions. Click To Tweet15. You’ve talked about kids
Whether or not you plan to have kids, having a conversation about them is essential because it could be a deal-breaker. If you’ve spoken with him about kids and you both agree on where you stand, you have a good chance at getting that ring.
16. He shows you off
When you go out together with friends, he loves to show you off. He can’t wait to tell his friends all about you or what you’ve accomplished because he’s proud to be with you. A man that shows you off is looking forward to marrying you!
17. He trusts you
It’s no surprise that trust is essential in any relationship, as it is the only foundation a strong partnership can stand on. If you and your man have a healthy relationship built on trust, then you’re a woman he will want to get married to.
18. He’s comfortable around you
A healthy relationship is a genuine relationship. Your potential spouse being comfortable around you (and vice versa) shows that he has nothing to hide. It also says that he can be himself around you, which is undoubtedly something he wants from his wife.
19. He surprises you with flowers
I think every lady can agree that being surprised with flowers or presents, especially for no reason, is such a special gift. If he likes to send you goodies, it’s because you’re always on his mind and, if he thinks about you that much, surely he’s thought about marrying you, too.
20. Your relationship is his favorite
If you’ve been together for some time, you’ve likely shared stories about your past relationships. In these conversations, take note when he mentions something about you that he likes that his exes didn’t have. If there’s ever a comparison, he always favors your attributes over those of his past relationships. These small reflections are signs that he wants to marry you!
21. He’s handy
Does your man help you around the house by taking out your trash or making small repairs around your place? These gestures, though they may seem trivial, show that he genuinely cares about you. He wants you to know that he’s husband material so that you’ll want to marry him.
22. He asks permission
Before going out with his friends or taking a trip with his buddies, he makes sure you’re okay with it. He doesn’t want to do anything that would upset you or make you uncomfortable, so he always checks with you. Someone who cares that much about you has thought about marrying you.
23. He looks at houses with you
Men are practical thinkers, so if he wants to marry you, he’s likely already thought about where you’re going to live. He might want to look at houses or apartments with you to get an idea for your style. You may drive around in neighborhoods together or watch shows about houses with each other. Whatever your preference is, if he’s thinking about sharing a space, he is probably getting ready to marry you.
24. He respects your opinions
Another sign that he may be ready to exchange vows is to value your input and respect your views. If he’s ready for marriage, he already sees you both as a team. You have to make decisions together, so he will always want your feedback and appreciate your ideas, even if you disagree.
If he's ready for marriage, he already sees you both as a team. Click To Tweet25. He is planning something secretly
Does your partner have something special up his sleeve? Has he been planning a special evening that he won’t tell you anything about? If you feel that he’s about to surprise you with something, there’s a good chance that your proposal is on its way!
26. You’re the center of his attention
A fantastic sign that he wants to marry you is how attentive he is toward you. If he puts his phone down and intentionally limits distractions when he’s with you, it’s because you are the center of his attention. That kind of attention only comes from a guy that wants to marry you!
27. He supports your dreams
There’s nothing quite like your companion being your biggest supporter. It shows that he cares for you and wants you to succeed just as much as you do. His support is a sign that he wants to marry you because it proves his commitment to you.
28. He’s there for you when you have a bad day
Another indication that he wants to marry you is his emotional support when you’re feeling down. He wants to see you happy, not upset, so he’ll do anything he can to turn your frown upside down. It’s an especially good sign if he doesn’t shy away from your tears. Instead, he’ll embrace you and try to cheer you up until you’re feeling yourself again.
29. He’s on time for dates
His punctuality is a hint that your beau is serious about your relationship. He doesn’t want to keep you waiting, so he makes sure that he’s on time to pick you up. This gesture could be a sign that he’s thinking about the next level.
30. He wants to stay in with you
You shouldn’t be worried if you two are staying in more often and going out less. It further emphasizes how comfortable he is with you and that he’d rather be cozy in your company. Holding you in his arms while watching a movie on the couch is one of the many simple comforts he’s looking forward to when he marries you.
31. You’re the only woman he’s interested in
You don’t catch him looking at other women, and he doesn’t even entertain the thought of being with someone else. He’s committed to you, and he’s ready to start a life together. If you’re the only woman he sees, there’s no doubt that he wants to marry you.
32. He runs errands for you
He’s not scared of running to the store to get you feminine products, and he doesn’t mind taking your car to get it washed. He likes to help you out in any way he can because that’s what a husband would do.
33. You are best friends
You do everything together, and even mundane tasks are fun. You relax at home, go to the movies, cook together, and watch the sunset. You feel like you can share anything with him, and he feels the same way. As your best friend, there’s nothing he wouldn’t do for you, and that’s why he’s ready to get married.
As your best friend, there's nothing he wouldn't do for you, and that's why he's ready to get married. Click To Tweet34. He follows through with commitments
If he says that he’s going to do something for you, he does it without any excuses. He always comes through for you, no matter what. His dedication to you is a sure sign that he’s ready for marriage.
35. He wants to make you happy
He is always trying to make you smile or laugh. He loves seeing you happy because that’s what makes him happy. Sure, his jokes might be corny, but being silly with you is one of his favorite things. You know what they say… happy wife, happy life!
36. He says “when” not “if”
When it comes to the words “when” and “if,” there’s a big difference. “If” is wishy-washy and lacks commitment, whereas the word “when” signifies a sure thing. Pay attention to which words he uses when referring to your future as a couple. If he says something like “when we get married” or “when we buy a house,” you can be sure that he doesn’t view those things as options. He’s taking the necessary steps to turn those ideas into reality.
37. He cooks for you
Cooking for you (even if he’s terrible at it) is a sweet gesture that he cares about your wellbeing. He desires to take care of you as your potential husband, and he wants you to know that. The next time he burns the chicken, remember that, even if it wasn’t a perfect meal, he tried to show you how much he cared.
38. He does things that you like
Engaging in activities that you like (especially when he isn’t particularly fond) shows just how much he wants to keep you happy. He will go to great lengths to make sure that you feel cared for and appreciated. Can there be a better sign that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you?
39. He sacrifices for you
If you are his priority, he won’t hesitate to put other frivolities aside to make sure that you are taken care of. When he’s ready to start your next chapter as a couple, he knows that sacrifices and compromises are necessary for having a successful relationship. If he sacrifices for you, marriage is right around the corner.
If you are his priority, he won't hesitate to put other frivolities aside to make sure that you are taken care of. Click To Tweet40. He’s your soulmate
Last, but certainly not least, you are each other’s soulmates! You two are connected in every way, and you make each other better. Even when you fight, you both know that you wouldn’t want to be with anyone else. You laugh together and have seen each other on your worst days. Neither of you could imagine going through life without the other, and that’s why he wants to make you his bride.
How long does it take a man to know he wants to marry you?
Some men will say that it was love at first sight, and he knew right away that his girl was meant to be his wife. A guy like this doesn’t want to keep you waiting for an engagement ring. If he wants to marry you but hasn’t proposed yet, it’s likely because he isn’t as stable financially or career-wise as he’d like to be. Other than you, his primary focus right now is making sure he can provide you the life you deserve.
Other men take their time. He needs to cross his T’s and dot his I’s before moving into any firm commitments. The most significant sign that he wants to marry you is where he stands on marriage. If he gags at the very mention of weddings, he probably isn’t interested in tying the knot. On the other hand, if he’s expressed interest in being married and settling down, then you know that he’s dating to marry and considers you to be someone he could share his life with.
A study published in The Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences (PNAS) suggests that it takes six months to decide if the person you’re dating is someone you’d marry. So if you’ve been dating for more than a year and still don’t know if you’re marriage material, it may be time to decide whether marriage is a deal-breaker. Are you willing to stick with your boyfriend until he makes up his mind, or would you rather kick him to the curb?
If you’re still wondering if he’s thinking about marriage and this question would not let you sleep at night, don’t be afraid to ask him! Just make sure that you aren’t pushing him into something that he’s not ready for. If you belong together, then you will be!
