The Aries man can be quite confusing regarding love and romantic relationships. In his heart, he is a true believer in love and soul connection, and boy, oh boy, does he love a good chase! However, for the pursuit to start, you must know how to attract an Aries man. Here you will find tips and tricks to make an Aries man obsessed with you!

What does an Aries man look for in a woman?

The first thing to note is that an Aries man loves strong women. Aries tend to attract people who are similar to them. A girl who relies on her looks alone won’t cut it for him. He needs to see your personality and, more importantly—your wit and drive. The typical Aries guy loves it when a woman knows what she wants and how to get it. Seeming incompetent or endlessly helpless will be a big turn-off for him, and he will simply see that as a sign of weakness. Men born under the sign of Aries tend to have successful jobs they are passionate about. Aries guys have a lot of drive and can truly appreciate it when a woman does. It’s a big bonus if you are equally as fiery about the things you do in your life.

He might neglect a flirtationship simply because he has other things on his mind, which doesn’t mean he’s not into you. He just needs free time dedicated to his family, friends, or professional work environment. Respect his need for freedom, and he will kiss the ground you walk on; I can promise you that. From what I’ve seen as an astrologer, Aries men tend to go for women with feminine flair, intelligence, and passion. This passion could be your hobbies, your work, or anything else. He will recognize this and admire you for it as long as it gets your heart going. Aries man also likes to voice his opinions and appreciates good back-and-forth conversations. Simply put, being “boring” is a big no for them, and leading an “uninteresting life” also won’t attract an Aries man. Instead, he looks for a woman who can keep up with him on his neverending adventure.

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How to flirt with an Aries man?

Romance is Aries guy’s game, and he adores pursuing it. He has a reputation for being the “hidden Casanova with horns” of the zodiac. Unlike Scorpio and Gemini, he doesn’t believe in the grand idea of great romantic love. If you are of a similar worldview, this is a good start for the two of you. Since Mars rules Aries, he likes intensity but prefers to be the more intense. This might sound like I’m saying, “Be yourself, but don’t be too much of yourself.” This isn’t the case, but bear with me!

The man born under the Aries star sign wants to make everyone happy and to know that the people around him are having a great time. Let him know that his efforts and gestures are appreciated. Touch his hand or arm when you tell him this for extra flirting points. Gentle, romantic touches are a big yes for him.

Flirt with him by asking questions other people might find unconventional or daring. This will attract him to you since it sends a specific signal to him. Not to sound cliche, but be straightforward with him. His only way of life is being direct and honest, and he wants a partner who can mirror that back to him. A Gemini tends to be the most compatible with an Aries since their wildness just astrologically clicks. However, this doesn’t mean there won’t be any chemistry or romantic energy if you’re not born under the Twins sign!

How to text an Aries man?

Texting an Aries man is simple yet powerful for flirting with him. The Aries man likes straightforwardness and consistency. However, he can get easily overwhelmed if you text him nonstop. A part of the chase is that you must let him chase you. Double or triple texting isn’t the best way to text him. Getting a little flirty and sexy while texting is highly encouraged, though. Drop a small hint, use an alluding emoji, it all works. For example, one of my close friends (who is in a long-term relationship with an Aries man) likes just to send him pictures instead of texting all day. She says that he goes wild when she sends him a photo of her wearing a cute dress or even an image where her smile and shoulders are visible.

Also, something to remember: Aries isn’t the best with routine. He might love that you text consistently, but he won’t do the same. Don’t get upset if he doesn’t text back promptly or has days when he’s too busy to be on his phone. Don’t take it personally; get back to living without checking his online status or seeing your text. This is also an excellent method to make an Aries man miss you. Don’t text him for a bit; you’ll see a true triple-texter jump out.

Having a serious conversation via text will probably bore him. Serious topics are for face-to-face communication. Another tip would be that you shouldn’t be the first person to mention a relationship, especially not via text—let the Aries do that part. The perfect recipe for texting an Aries man is basically: exciting topic, exciting topic, flirt, flirt, and disappear.

How to keep an Aries man interested?

Now, ladies, to me personally, this is the tricky part. In the past, I’ve managed to flirt and engage with Aries men successfully, but keeping them interested in you might be the most challenging part. This might sound strange advice but don’t give in too quickly. The longer the chase lasts, the more certain an Aries man will be that he wants only you. Show him that you don’t need him for you to be fulfilled in life. My biggest advice for this would be to make the Aries man feel like he’s needed and try to make it all seem challenging. I’ve said it twice, and I will repeat it: No one loves challenges more than an Aries man.

Showcase your personality to the best of your abilities. The attraction might lead an Aries man to you but looks alone won’t keep him interested in you. Show your true self and show your wild side. If you’re honest while maintaining your playful side, the Aries man will likely fall for you quickly. Have fun with him, and don’t be afraid to go on a less conventional date. Show him that you genuinely enjoy the time that you spend together. Let your inner kid come out, but don’t play games with him. He will figure your game out, and his interest in you will drop immediately.

How do you attract an Aries man sexually?

The key to attracting an Aries man can be summed up in one word: confidence. Nothing will turn on an Aries man more like a confident woman. He tends to go for women who care for themselves and exude a certain “je ne sais quoi.” With Aries, an enlivening debate about a topic you are passionate about could turn into a night of neverending pleasure for both of you. Even though he tends to like to make the first move, especially sexually, don’t be afraid to get a little naughty when you feel like the time is right. Some subtlety will always get the mind of an Aries man racing.

When it comes to sex, that also tends to be a game of pursuit and conquest, Aries man likes to lead, so the whole process of you trusting him also has a particular sexual charge. Aries possesses much masculine energy and tends to be drawn to more feminine women. However, this doesn’t mean you must always wear make-up, heels, and dresses to attract him. He is drawn to feminine energy because it opposes his and awakens his sexual side. If you are already at the stage where you know there is lots of sexual attraction, let him know you want him. When you get to this stage, surprise him by talking about your kinks, fetishes, things you want to try, or exciting experiences you’ve had. His eyes will be wide open. How to attract an Aries man tends to differ greatly from how to attract an Aries woman. An Aries man must always feel needed and wanted before making the first move. In contrast, an Aries woman simply hunts down their prey without hesitation.

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How do you get an Aries man to chase you?

An Aries Man won’t chase you if he doesn’t feel the attraction. No way. Period. If there is no chase, there won’t be a relationship either. For you to be able to attract him is the first step to getting to the chase. Once you have that part figured out, the pursuit starts. Now, you might wonder: how do I get him to keep chasing me? The answer isn’t that difficult—just make sure that he knows you are interested and that he might be needed. You have to show him in your way that you’re a strong independent woman who “allows” him to jump in.

A woman who can have her way with an Aries man is a woman who doesn’t need him but allows him to feel needed. He doesn’t like clingy behavior and needs a tough, free woman who can handle whatever. In that respect, a free-spirited Leo woman could be a good match for him. After all, Aries is ruled by Mars, and Mars exudes lots of powerful and intense energy. Being independent is also a sign that you can truly handle an Aries man. It might sound like a paradox, but a man born under the Aries sign may have a bigger ego or a need to be the masculine hero who shows up and saves the day. Let him romance you, but the crucial thing is always to remain somewhat mysterious as the chase continues. This is also very important to get an Aries man to miss you.

How to win an Aries man?

The moment he has started chasing you and is letting you know that he misses you, congratulations, girl—you have won the Aries man over. Since he likes to be the one who makes the first move, let him have it. Weirdly enough, it can be a turn-off for the Ram man if you’re the one who’s asking to be in a relationship. He might make the moment super romantic and passionate or make it quick and unforgettable, so you should be ready for that.

If he’s making romantic gestures towards you, that’s a sign that the relationship question may soon be popped. He might take you to the place you met or had your first date since he is that type of romantic. An Aries man is usually a great partner; once he enters a serious relationship, he is there for the long run. Aries only has eyes for you, and he wouldn’t ever dream of hurting you. If you tick off all his boxes, physically and mentally, the Aries man will be ready to commit. Others won’t even come to his mind!

I might have painted a picture of the Aries man being this over-the-top fiery, spontaneous, romantic, aggressive, and fierce guy. He might sound a bit harsh on paper, but in reality, most Aries men just like to think they are super intense and hard to handle when they simply are not. Don’t get me wrong—they do have an intensity. I joke with my friends that I can sense an Aries from a mile away because of this (and his semi-inflated ego). Mars rules over him, the planet named after the God of War. Luckily, he is far from warlike.

Aries man might be loud and childish, but his intentions are mostly pure, from romance and endearment. The good thing is that you can be as free as you want with an Aries man. No hiding, no B.S.—put who you are on the table, and the Ram will squirm. Once he sees and recognizes all the irresistible qualities, he will figure out how to make you his and his only. Remember, the feeling of mystery is also vital in this romantic pursuit.

Now that you know everything there is to know about the Ram, go on, girl, send that text!