how to stop thinking about someone

A couple of years ago, I thought I found the one. The guy was intelligent, funny, kind; he basically checked off every box on my list. When it didn’t work out, I took it hard. I spent half a year ruminating on what went wrong in the relationship and refusing to accept that I wasn’t […]

signs your ex misses you

When the person you want to be with is no longer part of your life, it is natural to feel a little melancholy. But if you want to get your lady back into your life, then you are going to need some assurance that there is still a chance for you to impact her heart.

after divorce

Dating after divorce can be great or it can be a disaster. No two divorces are alike and how well you are doing after a divorce depends on different factors. Whose idea was the divorce? If it was yours, you probably have your reasons firmly in mind and can be happy about being single again.

ex texts you

Getting into contact with an ex can be a risky business. All the progress you’ve made to move on can be undone with a single ping when your ex texts you out of the blue. I’m a firm believer that if the end of the relationship was destructive, you should do your best to stay

what to do after a breakup

When a relationship falls apart the natural grieving process takes its toll and you deal with things the only way you know how. Whether that’s grabbing your closest friends to paint the town red or shutting yourself off from the world. However, there is a version of you without your ex partner that is happy,

heal your heart

Breakups can come in all shapes and sizes. Emotions are running high and everyone has a different way of coping and moving on with the breakup. One thing we can agree on is music can help to heal your heart. They say music is one of the best therapies so here is my rundown of

after a break up

It goes without saying that there are different ways people behave after a break up – let’s be honest here, they are usually terrible. A lot of this is subjective to how and why the love was lost in the first place: who did the dumping or if someone cheated. However, I find that I

stay friends

You probably secretly hope that, if sometimes unwanted day comes where your relationship ends, you can still stay friends with our ex. I will admit, I’ve hoped for this so much too, as this person can often become your very best friend during your relationship. However, through personal experiences, I have found that no matter how hard you

getting back together

As a rule of thumb, ex-lovers should not be an option. When you started to move on going back to relive something that turned out to be a mistake may not be the best idea. At the end of the day, you must consider whether getting back together with your ex-lover is going to be a great

let go of your ex and move on

I am dealing daily with people who try hard to let go of their ex, but they delve even deeper into the relationship. It is not always because they are not letting go, but they are allowing their ex to stop them from moving on. It could all be so simple but when feelings, sentiments,