Have you ever been in a friendly debate with your friends about which of you has the best taste in choosing a partner? Well, if you are a man who is reading this article, be aware that women have the same debates with their friends about what makes a man attractive to a woman. Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. My friends and I don’t have the same taste in men, but there are some universal beliefs that all women have with regards to what makes a man attractive. If you want to attract, and most importantly, keep a woman attracted to you, then you need to become the type of man who gives women what they want. Here is how you can do that.
1. Smile and affection
There is something so endearing about a man who smiles and strives to find something to be happy about. Misery loves company, and no person who is serious about being in a relationship will be satisfied with being miserable. A smile a day will keep the doubts away. A woman will trust you and feel more drawn to you when she knows that cultivating happiness is important to you.
Romantic hugs, kisses, and cuddles are priceless gifts that every woman wants and needs. There is no shame in showing your feelings. Some men have been raised to believe that expressing their tender emotions reveals their weaknesses, but that could not be further from the truth. There is power in showing someone that you care about them, even if doing so comes with you risking being vulnerable.
2. Responsibility and generosity
A good man who can be counted on is like a house with a solid foundation; he is in high demand. There are too many irresponsible and inconsiderate people walking around. No adult can control the weather or how other people behave, but we can all certainly control our individual emotions and how we react to life’s circumstances. Do you complain a lot? If you are the type of man who complains about your problems instead of solving your problems, then you will have a hard time making yourself look appealing to a woman.
Solve your problems as best as you can. While you are working on improving yourself, lend a helping hand to someone else at the same time. Women like men who give of themselves. A man who puts the welfare of others as a high priority will be regarded as someone who cares about their family and community. I have noticed that many people who are highly successful financially are people who are well-connected to their communities and have the support of people in their communities because they have proven themselves as people who are caring and conscientious individuals who get positive results.
3. Demonstrated interest in her
Do you struggle to remember the birth dates of your loved ones? If so, you need to realize that showing someone that you care does not mean that you have to buy extravagant gifts. Giving a simple card and a heartfelt birthday wish or word of praise will help you to attract and keep a woman’s affection.
Take initiative and plan some romantic moments for the woman you want to keep in your life. If you are already in a relationship, create an in-home picnic basket complete with a meal that you have lovingly prepared. Show your sweetheart that you are eager to initiate positive experiences for the two of you to share together, and her interest in you will continue to grow.
4. Appearance and manners
There are days when the thought of staying in bed all day and lounging while leisurely doing crossword puzzles and munching on chips would be heavenly! At least, that’s my idea of a lovely way to spend the day. However, I know that I need to work daily on myself to look my best and be my best.
Women are attracted to men who put effort into their appearances. Period. You might think that those ripped and stained sweatpants of yours are cute, but that doesn’t mean that everyone will feel that way. Women want to feel proud of the men who they are dating, and they don’t want to feel embarrassed by their man’s style of dress, conversational skills, and manners. Strive each day to look and behave maturely for your age. Be progressive about becoming the best version of yourself that you can be.
5. Good habits and acknowledgment of mistakes
Are you conscientious about how your habits are affecting your life? Whatever impacts your day-to-day life also affects your love life. Are you a smoker who spends most of your income on your nicotine habit? Be prepared to be rebuffed by women who don’t want to date men who are smokers. Smoking is not a good habit to start up, and you will find yourself to be much more appealing to a wider variety of women if you give it up.
No one is perfect. People should not have unrealistic expectations that their love mates will be perfect, but it is perfectly reasonable to expect acknowledgment of mistakes that are made. If your conscience is prompting you, make your apologies when you know that you are wrong. Reach out and be humble when you know that you need to make amends. Women love when men can admit their errors because admitting wrongdoing shows that someone is trustworthy and willing to learn and change for the better.
You can be the man that your ideal woman needs and wants if you put effort into being progressive, considerate, humble, well-mannered, and well-groomed. There is no need to pretend to be someone else. Being yourself and being the best version of yourself should be your goal every day. Most of all, always remember that a woman mostly wants a man who is faithful. Showing your girlfriend loyalty and love will increase your value and attractiveness in her heart and in her mind. Be the type of man that any woman would be proud to call her one and only and you’ll have the answer to the question of what makes a man attractive to a woman.